Friday, 20 April 2007

Thoughts. Two bodies


I'll not tell you what to see in this peinture. I'm pretty sure you see very well :)
But I'll try a (short) peroration on sexuality (this is never useless:) ). A very dear friend of mine wonderfully said that beauty is not about how many kilos you have but about how you fill the space you're placed in.
It's pretty the same about the sexuality, it doesn't matter if you're ugly or beautiful/handsome, thin or fat, short or tall. Sexuality is a state of your mind that gets really fast to the others. How is that possible?! Since we try so hard sometimes to make ourselves understood by the others :)
Well, what is fun and entertaining is usually having a greater success to all types of audiences with not so much effort. And we associate sex with fun and entertainment (you know the chemical/psychological reactions that happen in our bodies when having sex)

Maybe the first step in getting a higher degree of sexuality is becoming aware of one of your sexual attributes - like the lady in this painting which would be a very normal human being if her breasts wouldn't capture the entire attention of the watcher. Are they bigger, more beautiful than others? No way, but her state of mind can make look them the best ones in the world.
Step two: Choose whatever part of your body and practice (might be one of your fingers:) )
Before moving to step three it's important to learn that being sexually attractive is not very difficult. What's difficult is to learn controlling it, in order to expose it only when you want to. Here is where some brain would be very helpful ;)

Step three is more like a warning: make sure you know you're the only one responsible for what happens to you (sexually related stuffs) when you use your sexuality.

Why this sarcastic peroration? Because sex is a huge faintness of the human beings. And their weaknesses are the others' power for controlling them.

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